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在这个有限的世界

星期一, 04月 20th, 2009 20:57

那时候我以为,事情也只能如此了——活着只是活着,没有任何意义,世界本就是荒谬,不必寻找任何解释,愚痴迷茫藏在每个人的心里,独善其身并不能够阻碍大众滑向深渊。
是以,为了自己暂时的欢乐,做那些并不是很“政治正确”的事,着实算不了什么。大多数人,不都是这样吗?为什么我要例外,为什么要给自己诸多限制。凡生者必灭,既然石头总归是要滚落,西西弗斯的反抗也就没有任何意义。我们哭泣,我们欢笑,只是因为心有不甘。
只有永劫回归。
据说苹果一直是落向地面而不会飞入天空的。过去如此,现在如此,将来也如此。可是,当所有的苹果都飞上天空那一天,这一说法,也就没有任何意义。而那一天,随时都可能到来。

直到——发现,原来真正的“合理解释”不是不存在,只是被遗忘被埋藏,被大多数人误解。直到发现,原来分离从未发生,原来该做的事必定要做。
如果一件事情,你认为正确,又在你的能力范围之内,那么,为什么不做?所有的理由都是借口。如果一件事情,今天就可以做,那么,为什么要拖到明天。明天的存在并不是得到保证的。

“于一毫端,现宝王剎;坐微尘里,转大法轮。”——《楞严经》
不知道因果,也就不能真正深入地理解当下;知道无常,自然要升起慈悲。世界依然是有限的,行动不见得就能带来所要的结果,但不行动,就一无所有。

哲学家说:信上帝罢,若祂存在,那幺必定是要信的;若不存在,信祂,是精神上的寄托。只管信,不管祂是不是真的存在,怎幺也是只赚不赔的买卖。
我想:做对的事罢,如果苹果往天上飞,我们所作的一切都是徒劳;如果苹果还是继续向地上落,世界的法则依然生效,那幺就遵循它而行。不管结果是哪一种,违背法则,都得不到真正的心安。

不同功能的作用及其判定

星期三, 04月 15th, 2009 22:47

借着“意译”的名义,搞得似是而非,扭曲异常。。。

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http://www.cognitiveprocesses.com/16types.html

The 16 Type Patterns
16种人格类型

Adapted from Linda V. Berens and Dario Nardi,

Understanding Yourself and Others: An Introduction to the Personality Type Code

(Telos Publications, 2004) *Used with permission.

THERE ARE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES. EACH “TYPE” REPRESENTS A UNIQUE PREDICTABLE PATTERN OF HOW THE EIGHT PROCESSES ARE USED IN EVERYDAY LIFE.

存在16种人格类型。每种“类型”都可预见出的在日常生活中对应的八种功能的运用方式。

The Roles of the Processes

不同功能的作用

In each of the sixteen types, each of the eight processes plays a different “role” in the personality. The type code lets you know what role each process plays for each type. This is called “type dynamics.” It is also referred to as the “hierarchy of functions”: Dominant, Auxiliary, Tertiary, and Inferior. The roles are explained below to help you better understand the patterns. In most of what we do we rely on two of the processes—a preferred way of accessing information and a preferred way of organizing and evaluating that information. As we look more closely we can see that one process takes a leading role and the other takes a supporting role.*

所有的功能均在不同的人格类型中扮演着各自的角色。类型代码的作用就是让你知道在不同的类型中,各种功能分别扮演着何等角色。这就是所谓的“动力类型”。也就是我们所说的“功能等级”:主导功能,辅助功能,第三功能和劣势功能。这些内容在下面会有进一步的解释以助你加深理解。通常情况下我们主要依靠两种功能,一种用来收集信息,另一种用来组织所获取的信息。当我们对此更深入观察时,会发现一种功能占主导地位而另一种起辅助作用。

In truth, we have access to all eight cognitive processes—the other six are often in the background, playing other kinds of roles. Each has a positive and a negative way of expressing itself. Each bears a different energy cost when we use it.

事实上,我们能够使用所有这八种功能,只是另外六种常常居于幕后,起着不同的作用。每种方式都可能被积极或消极地呈现。当我们运用不同方式时,也就是在向不同的方面投入精力。
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ISFP的人际关系

星期二, 04月 14th, 2009 08:50

http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFP_rel.html

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ISFP Relationships
ISFP的人际关系

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ISFPs are warmhearted, gentle people who take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. They are very private people, who keep their true feelings and opinions reserved or hidden from others. This may cause them to constantly defer to their mates in their intimate relationships, which may cause problems if their mates are not extremely aware of the ISFP’s feelings. Some ISFPs who are in the habit of not expressing their needs and feelings find themselves in situations throughout their life where they feel overshadowed, overlooked, or even “tread upon” by others. Highly practical and cynical by nature, these feelings may cause the ISFP to become bitter, and to either give up on their relationships, or to start using their relationships for their own personal gain. Although this problem is observed sometimes in the ISFP type, it does not seem to be present in those ISFPs who consistently express their feelings to those closest to them. These ISFPs have a very positive, warm outlook on life and love, and are not as likely to find themselves in relationships where they are taken for granted or taken advantage of. ISFPs go to great lengths to please their partners. They’re very loyal and supportive, with a deep capacity for love. They detest conflict and discord, and highly value being seen and understood for who they are. They need space to live their lives in their own unique way, and will respect other’s need for space.
ISFP温和而热心,注重承诺,致力于寻求终身关系。他们是极为重视隐私的人,会在他人面前隐藏自己的真实观点与想法。这或许会使得他们在亲密关系中时常去顺从同伴,若此时他们的同伴并没有真正认识到ISFP的感受,可能会引发问题。有些没有表达自我需要与感受习惯的ISFP终其一生都会感到自己处在不被重视、被忽略、乃至于被“践踏”的境地。由于他们愤世嫉俗、高度讲求实际的天性,这些感觉可能会使ISFP 倍感苦涩,要么选择放弃经营人际关系,要么开始将人际关系仅用于谋取私利。尽管在某些ISFP身上会观察到这些问题,但似乎那些能够始终对亲近的人表达真实感受的ISFP身上并不会产生此类问题。这些ISFP会对生活和爱拥有积极温暖的观念,而不会在人际关系中感到自己的付出被视为理所当然或是感到被利用。ISFP有能力取悦他们的伙伴。他们极为忠诚,富有爱的能力。他们痛恨冲突与不和,很在意别人是否觉察与理解他们的本性。他们需要空间来以自己的方式生活,并同样尊重他人的这种需要。
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ISFP的个人成长

星期日, 04月 12th, 2009 21:44

和INFP的90%是一样的……这还叫翻译么。。。叫润文还差不多。。。。泪奔。。。(由此推论,越往后面真正需要重新翻译的东西越少,嘿嘿)

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http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFP_per.html

ISFP Personal Growth
ISFP的个人成长

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What does Success mean to an ISFP?
对于ISFP来说,成功的意义为何?

ISFPs are creative, sensitive souls with a great capacity for love. They seek harmony, validation, and affection in their relationships with others. They value creativity and spirituality. Very sensitive and easily hurt by rejection and harshness, they are sometimes drawn to turn their love towards creatures who will love them back unconditionally, such as animals and small chlidren. They believe heartily in unconditional love, and in an individual’s right to be themself without being judged harshly for who they are. Of all of the types, the ISFP is most likely to believe that “Love is the answer.” For the ISFP, personal success depends upon the condition of their closest relationships, their aesthetic environment and the development of their artistic creativity, their spiritual development, and how much they feel valued and accepted for their individual contributions.

ISFP有着富有创造力的、感性的灵魂,极具爱的能力。他们会在与他人的关系中寻求和谐、安全与关爱。他们重视创造力与与灵性,是极为敏感的一群,在被拒绝,或被粗鲁对待时容易感到受伤。有时会将爱投注于那些会无条件地回报他们的爱的生灵,如动物或幼童。他们发自内心地相信无条件的爱,相信人有 “成为自己”的权利而不是被粗鲁地判断。在所有的类型中,ISFP是最倾向于相信“爱才是最终的答案”。对ISFP来说,个人成功依赖于:他们在亲密关系中的情况,周围的审美环境,他们的艺术创造力的发展,灵性(精神)上的成长,以及他们在多大程度上感到他们的独特贡献被承认与接受。

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Allowing Your ISFP Strengths to Flourish
发展你的ISFP特质
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星光梦境

星期日, 04月 12th, 2009 14:09

要有怎样通透的眼
才能穿透迷障

要有怎样剧烈的燃烧
才能把光芒送到八百光年之外

眼光与星光交汇 此外什幺也没发生
天地冷漠依旧 上帝继续玩轮盘赌

被当作筹码的众生
要在经过几番轮回
才能找到

回家的路

老人说
夜孩子行走八荒
就是不会去天堂

再丰盛的沙漠也是 死城